You don't have to micromanage gifted people

I dont want to learn to play the guitar, but i just want to play it. And i dont want to make money. I want to have it. Also i dont want to meet a nice boy, but i want to have met one. You could say i dont even want to live an intense adventurous life, but i want to have lived it, so i can comfortably enjoy it all in retrospect. Mister, do you see what i mean. Mister?